We can all agree that sometimes expectation before the wedding ceremony and the actual reality in the marriage may not at first be the same. For some of us, we quickly get overwhelmed and sometimes miss our single life. A few even feel they have let themselves down and very soon wished they were married to another.
The mentality of searching for a replacement spouse soon after the wedding ceremony is founded on the ideology that issues in our marriage are majorly because we did not choose right.
We, therefore, go into the “husband market” or “wife market” again and again trying to get it right. While unequal yoking may be the issue for some, it is not essentially the case for everyone having issues.
The truth is you will never get a spouse you would not need to do some work with to get your relationship right. So why not work with this one you have got! Especially when your spouse is willing to work with you.
If we are going to stay married for life and remain happy all through it, we are going to have to design in unity that kind of marriage we want.
There are no "Made in Heaven Marriages". Every successful marriage here on earth requires the full commitment of both parties!
Successful marriages do not just happen; they are made to happen.
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